Sex is such as small word, but has so much stigma attached to it. In such an overly sexualized society, talking about sex can be a little awkward, can’t it?
I thought I’d talk a little bit about sex, and try to revolutionize the way we think about sex, by saying the word ‘sex’ a lot in this post. SEX.
Sex isn’t a topic to shy away from, with so many questions surrounding the topic, we should be frank with each other and be able to talk about it. Especially when it can be such a bit factor in our lives.
Having sex for the first time is something that can be daunting, scary and a little awkward. For me it was a time where I felt I had a lot of questions, but felt like I couldn’t ask them in fear of being judged and quite frankly I felt embarrassed.
There is a lot of factors to consider before having sex, and the main one is asking yourself ‘Do I feel ready?’ If you question that, you probably aren’t. You should wait, and when you are ready you’ll just know!
There are so many people out there, who are branded a slut for being openly sexual, and branded frigid if they’re not. There are so many people out there just to judge, but what’s important is that you don’t judge yourself. Being a sexual person isn’t a bad thing, it gives you the opportunity to express yourself both emotionally and physically and you get to burn a few calories in the process! Being overtly open about that is your own choice, and being a bit more private about that is completely okay too. Everything should be on your terms, with both people involved happy and most importantly comfortable.
Being able to talk about sex openly with the person you are engaging in it with is crucial. You both have limits, and know when you feel comfortable and when you don’t. There should never be a time, where you feel like your boundaries are being crossed, and feel unable to express that.
The most important thing you should ever be told about sex is that it should always feel right, with the right person when you feel it’s the right time. All of these factors make a difference, and make is whole lot more enjoyable, am I right or am I right ladies? It goes for men as well, but I’m a woman and I don’t have a set of balls, so I don’t know how enjoyable it is as a guy, although I assume and hope, very!
Sex is a great time to experiment and get to know what you do like, what you don’t like and find your own way. You make your own rules! If you feel the right place and time is on your sofa in the middle of your fave TV show, well then good for you! If you feel like the right place and time, is in your own bed, setting the mood, then good for you too! It’s all about you, it’s something there for your own pleasure! Just make sure to be safe, and comfortable but most importantly have some fun!
If you have any questions concerning sex, then use this as your platform to get answers! I’ll help in all areas I feel I can help with and try and help with the areas my knowledge might not quite extend to!
Just know, that sex isn’t a tabood topic here, and questions are always welcome! Sex is something that is meant to be enjoyed, something to make us happy, not to make us feel bad about ourselves, or something to be judged on.
Thirsty For Thought.